It has been known that women can trust a man's actions before they can trust his words, but most women don't realize that men read your actions before they read your words. I once had a guy base our relationship the infamous "Door Test" from "A Bronx Tale."



In this world that repeatedly reminds women that fairytales don't exist, women need to be aware of their actions and the messages they convey. More importantly, we need to look at the internal signals the we send off that may make men look the other way.


Lesson 1

Get Busy - There is a world of activity waiting for you. Keep it up or start something new. During the dating phase, when you and your interest are getting to know each other, don't let them know or make it seem like they are the only activity or interest in your life.

Being your sole interest, activity and entertainment is a heavy weight on people who are in the dating phase. It starts to feel like a responsibility when his time and phone calls become an expectation before a commitment has been established.

Activities to Keep You Busy(The Club is Not Open 24-7):

Volunteer Match - Find the best way to give back.

Sippin Sistas Atlanta - Join Atlanta's Premier Wine Club for education, good times and sisterhood.

Meetup.com - Find a group that shares your interests.

Discover A Hobby - Take this quiz to discover what hobbies fit your lifestyle.

Start A New Business - Discover the opportunities available to you as a woman.

Actions vs. Words - Lesson 1